Mom’s Fresh Start: Balancing Motherhood and Career—Finding Your Identity Beyond the Home

Becoming a mom has been the most beautiful and life-changing experience for me, but there were moments when I felt like parts of myself had slipped away. Navigating the balance between being the mother my son needs and holding onto my own dreams has been an emotional journey, but it's also been incredibly rewarding. With each step, I’ve learned that it’s possible to embrace both—motherhood and my passions—and it’s made me feel more whole, both as a woman and a mom.

I remember feeling so guilty when I first started thinking about my career again, like I was somehow not giving enough to my son. But I’ve come to realize that pursuing my goals doesn’t make me less of a mom. In fact, it makes me a stronger role model for him. Our dreams matter, and by stepping into them, we show our children the importance of following their passions. It may feel overwhelming at times, but each small step forward shifts your energy and helps you show up more fully in all areas of your life.

I once worked with a client who, after years of focusing on her family, realized she had neglected her passion for painting. She loved being a mom, but there was a part of her that longed for something creative and fulfilling outside of her daily responsibilities. At first, she felt guilty for wanting time for herself, but through our coaching sessions, she started to see that nurturing her own passions didn’t take away from her role as a mother—it added to it. She began by setting aside just 30 minutes a week for her art, and over time, it grew into something much bigger. Not only did she rediscover her creative spark, but she also found that it made her feel more energized and present with her family. Her children even started to join her during her painting sessions, making it a beautiful way to bond and show them that it’s okay to pursue your dreams, no matter where you are in life.

Here are a few things that have helped me and might support you in finding that balance:

Give yourself permission to want more – It’s okay to love being a mom and still want something for yourself. Your dreams and ambitions outside of motherhood are just as important, and they deserve your attention.

Start small but steady – You don’t have to make big changes all at once. Start with small actions, like dedicating even a little time each week to something that excites you. It could be learning something new, reconnecting with a passion, or exploring career ideas.

Build a support system – Surround yourself with people who get it, whether it's a coach, a mentor, or a group of moms on the same path. Having someone who encourages and supports you makes all the difference.

Balancing motherhood and your own dreams doesn’t mean doing it all—it means finding what feels right for you. You’re not just a mom; you’re a woman with goals that deserve space to grow. If you’re on a similar journey or feel like you're ready to take that first step, I’d love to support you. Let’s connect, and we can walk this path together.

You got this, sweet mom!